My phone thinks my boyfriend is my ‘best friend’. It’s not alone | Patrick Lenton

Being in a same-sex relationship can make you weirdly invisible. Queer identity shouldn’t be treated as abnormal My boyfriend and I invented a game on our recent trip to Italy. We called it “invisible gays”, which might have been an attempt at some kind of word play around “gays” and “gaze” – but I was on holiday and feeling lazy, so I didn’t push it. The game began when one night he took me out to a little trattoria to celebrate my birthday. It was a warm night, and fairy lights were entangle